Give it up for giving!

Going through my closet and getting rid of a lot of stuff. Some of them are things that I like and have never worn, and some are things that I like less, but used to love. Whatever the reason, it's time to share some of the wealth. I am purging and sending my things abroad to people who have material needs that far exceed my own. Join me.

When having a conversation with someone that clearly challenges your mood; chose not to allow that person to take you with them. It is afer all your mood. Try being more in control of the impact that external forces have on you!

Dr.Sis
signing off

Getting unstuck

If you are in life feeling stuck. Trying leaping into the unknown. Fear the known! I wonder why it's so scary. What's the worst that could happen?

My seeds

My 13 year old-he's a great kid! I just spoke with another woman with a kid that she has to lay hands on daily. Am I gonna wake up one day and my kid doesn't want his mom to kiss him goodnight anymore. Yikes. I'm not ready. My six year old is fabulous too! It's my 3 year old that I wanna pawn for some shiny new gold. You know the one I stayed home with for 2 years. Being a stay at home mom for the sake of our kids is over RATED!

Dr. Sis
signing off....

Be optimistic

Keep your head up. Today news, from the stock market, to our own personal finance, everything seems to be going to hell. But keep your head up. You have a choice in deciding how you feel. You can let this stuff get you down, or trust that your God is gonna bring you through. Just keep on steppin....

Dr. Sis
signing off

11 Trillion Dollar Debt

How can anyone wrap their heads around an 11 trillion dollar debt, when most folks are just trying to make ends meet? It's even hard to get upset. Hmmmm

Aids in Washington, DC

I think this Aids epidemic in DC is absolutely shameful. And as a social psychologist, it leaves me saddened and disheartened. On the radio the other day, I heard some Dr. talking about how we need to educate men and women about bodily fluids. They need to know that all bodily fluids have the potential to transmit the virus. Well excuse me. I think that the one thing most people know is how Aids is transmitted. I strongly believe that the reason this thing disease is out of control, is that researchers are missign the mark. I believe this Aids epidemic in Washington, DC has more to do with the cultural phenomenon "the down-low." I am referring to mostly married ment. It's just not acceptable for black brothers to come out and say that they have affection for other men. That is not an absolute. But culturally, it's still not OK. Now, I'm not judging. I do however know human behavior. At least a little bit-enough to validate my degree for a few minutes a day. I believe that the homosexuality taboo is so closely adhered to that these men and their shameful (hidden bisexual) lifestyles are infecting women with HIV and ultimately killing our women. It needs to stop, but not until we address it head-on. And then it still may not end. Married men on the down-low have to be free enough to be who they are and stop this form of violence against women. Get divorced and get out. If you know that you are attracted to the opposite sex...Do you. Don't take the sister, or for that matter, the brother into a threesome without their permission. While social scientists continue to putter around spending millions of dollars resesarching behavior, and talking about bodily fluids; thinking that we have to tell people how not to contract HIV, we aren't getting it. PEOPLE KNOW HOW AIDS IS CONTRACTED. Save your money and find ways to deal with this other seemly immpossible issue of men on the DL infecting their wives.

Dr. Sis...signing out.
Be Led To Change!